Sometimes I accuse my husband of being pessimistic. But in reality I think he does a great job of balancing me out. I always think the best of people and expect them to do what is right. Unfortunately that means that when they don't do the right thing I tend to get my feelings hurt. Right now my feelings are very, very hurt. I wish my dear, sweet husband was here right now to tell me I'm an idiot and people are assholes and that we should always expect them to take advantage of a situation. Instead I am going to have to grow some balls and have a very not-pleasant conversation with someone who is taking advantage of my kindness.